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CONCLUSION

This interview actually took place over 5 months ago! Things have changed a lot with me in that time, I’ve taken on several clients and begun to change realities. I’m very happy with my work so far, and I believe I’ve created a system (a system which uses no methods of course!) which can help anyone get past sticking points and rocket through the barrel of social arts training at record speeds!

Beyond that I know the last video was posted somewhere around 3 months ago. There’s been a bit of a falling out between my self and some friends, when you get good at this art you really do lose a lot of friends a long the way. Some get jealous, and others you decide aren’t healthy for your own development and you must bid farewell too ‘em. As soon as I acquire a new filming crew I’ll have new video’s coming out with a vengeance!

p.s. currently looking for “side kick.” If you live in the general Toronto area send me a private message. You must be alright with being filmed because we’re gonna’ have some fun! I’ll let you in on the full criteria in the e-mail!

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CONCLUSION

I made this video for one reason - You guys requested it!

I’ve had quite a few comments and e-mails from guys wanting to see “day twos.” So I included actual footage from a date with girl, and myself setting up a date with a different girl right after the first one leaves.

And yes, the girl in the post IS the blond I was talking about in my Blog entry titled *Tired Post* (she was the one with the nasty smokers breath) Also, yes, my real name IS Adam. I only tell the girls who I intend to film and put on the website that my name is Jack.

I WISH Jack Coxwell was my real name, it sounds like a Porn Star name to me! Jack Coxwell is like my “Style” to Neil Strauss. It just sounds a little more natural that’s all.

Anyway, I’ll quickly touch on the date with the girl (if you look at the date in the video when I’m showing the msn convo’, you’ll notice the video was filmed only yesterday, so the date was in fact last night!)

There isn’t much to say about it really, we went out, she drove. We went into this really big spooky forest at night. It was her idea, she was talking about scary stuff, so I suggested we go into a big scary forest and try not to freak. We had no flash lights or anything, it actually WAS scary as hell! And I ended up getting a big mosquito bite right on the face! Lovely.

Night ended off with her wanting to go in my house, she used the excuse “I want you to show me the film you’ve been editing.” Yadda yadda yadda, you know the rest.

- Jack Coxwell

ps. don’t worry, more interactive bootcamp footage of Zack and Nitro is on the way!

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CONCLUSION

In this Entry I try to get Mentalist (Zack) over his sticking point of being able to stop moving Targets. My second aim is to get him to keep a short conversation going with some strangers so he can realize they’re not all mean, and they’re not out to get him.

Out of the 5 sets he approached, all but 1 stopped for him, and all but 2 gave him their opinion (if you saw Vh1’s “The Pickup Artist,” take note that in the Second LAST episode of the season when the men were supposed to be almost “PUA’s,” they could hardly get ANY moving targets to stop).

Of course the next step after getting their opinion is KEEPING the conversation going for a longer time. Mentalist is relatively new to the game, and the steps I provided for him (and you, the viewers) are intended to be applied one at a time. This means not jumping the gun until each step has been mastered! This is the exact reason why you are to eject and not keep talking (if you’re more advanced feel free to continue the conversation, however) Following these steps strictly WILL transform you from an everyday frustrated guy, into a guy who’s able to have Option over what women he allows into his life! The steps work so wonderfully because they build a SOLID foundation of learned skills, whilst easing you into formerly awkward social situations, instead of tossing you into a pit of sharks.

The next episode will include the following: How to start building attraction with a complete stranger.

- Jack Coxwell

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CONCLUSION

This video’s challenge: Get rid of left over Approach Anxiety.

Let’s face it, there are hundreds of ways to overcome your approach anxiety. I’m barely scratching the surface here. I’ve chosen this method because it’s very ballsy, it makes you feel like an idiot, and if you pull it off you’re a god in my books.

Nitro is an interesting character, he proved to have little AA when I took him through the “say hi to everyone” drill from Entry 001. And beyond that a few other drills. So I had him do what I believed to be one of the ballsier drills i knew, “The Nipple Game.” After he blew past this drill, and while speaking to him and finding out his unique problems were hooking the sets, in other words building attraction, reaching a hook point, building comfort. You know, everything that is supposed to happen after you open. I realized his energy was waaay too high for the girls he was approaching. It being street game, and at night time! Girls will naturally have higher shields up especially when alone in a big city, for obvious reasons.

To most girls he was coming off as creepy, so he needed to turn it down just a little bit, and be as he called it “smoother.” Unfortunately it became too late, so we had to retire our session for the night. The next video with Nitro will include footage of him working on this specific goal, among others.

- Jack Coxwell (Former AFC, now a PUA/lifestyle coach)

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