Episode 11 – Rejection, NOT Ejection!
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CONCLUSION
I noticed something very interesting while thinking about game the other day, more importantly, when thinking about MY game. I came to a huge realization that some of you may never reach (unless you want it bad enough). That is, when I finally did become really good at picking up women, it did not happen over night. No, it happened within an instant! It was not until I said to my self, “Jack, you are amazing at picking up women.” After I said those words – more importantly – after I said and believed those words, I became a pickup artist. Not only in Title, but in reality.
Afterwards, the girls I was approaching actually did begin to open more easily, my conversations began to flow better, and I began to close almost every girl I came into contact with (who was of beauty to me).
The logic behind this? It’s simple really, once you accept something as truth it becomes truth. Our bodies are incredible systems that tactfully adapt to all kinds of unreal situations that would otherwise crush us!
Many of us trot around in this existence tick-tocking through life in a dazed time warp. Once you grab hold of your reality and start living moment to moment – instead of week to week, month to month, year to year – Life begins to make sense again. Life begins to get beautiful again. All of a sudden you begin to acquire things you used to yearn and struggle for. Instead these “things” begin to almost come right for you! Sometimes it can be a tad overwhelming and you may find yourself running from said “things!”
Listen guys, this game isn’t hard. There are practically encyclopedia’s of information out there that will teach you everything you need to know (theory wise) to pickup a girl! This stuff has been tested time and time again. This stuff WORKS! Period.
The catch is, you have to apply your new insights to real world situations. I read material for over 6 months with barely ever going out in the beginning! When I finally did go out I found my self pissing my pants full of fear and self doubt. It took time, effort, and determination to make it over the first hump. You too can have the same results, you simply need to remember to LEARN from your failures, embrace your failures! Look forward to your failures! dissect and study them with a microscope! But never, and I mean never, Fear your failures.
If I never had my heart ripped out, stuffed back in again upside down, then ripped out and put through a grader – I’d never have embarked on this journey. My failure to have a successful relationship launched my quest forward towards new things I never would have dreamed possible!
Close the books, get out that door, and open up a conversation with a stranger. Don’t worry about failing, take a note pad and write down the things you think you may have done poorly and need to improve after each said “failure,” and then tell yourself how amazing of a pickup artist you are, and move on to the next girl. With over 3 billion women on the planet, I’m sure you wont’ have a tough time finding at least one to love ya’!
- Jack Coxwell
