*Being mean to Stalkers*
All week I’ve had a date with a new girl each night of the week. Some days I go through two dates in the same day. I’ve even been turning down girls for sex who didn’t turn me on enough.
Anyway, about this stalker: She’s one of the girls I picked up while I was a little tipsy one night. She was also the initiator of us hanging out, she called me. So of course to be nice I went to hang out with her. Only she turned out to be not as attractive as I had remembered. She wasn’t ugly mind you, by any means of the word (she was very thin, nice body) but there was something about how she held herself, her mannerisms that was just a huge turn off for me. She actually reminded me of my own Mother a little bit…
We had a couple dates, and within each of those dates I turned down sex with her. I just wasn’t feeling it, in fact the reason I even saw her a second time was because I thought I might be up for banging her another night, but alas, not the case.
Last night she called me to hang out, of course I declined, and I tried to let her down easy, as they say. I started by explaining to her (for the third time), we were looking for different things. I explained I was NOT interested in any kind of monogamous relationship, and if she got attached to me it wouldn’t be pretty, as I intend to see as many girls as I like. She argued that she doesn’t want a relationship, all she wants is a Fuck Buddy. So now she’s changed her story completely, to suit MY needs. Great!
So today she’s on msn, pestering me again. Just messaging me a lot, and text messaging my cell phone like no tomorrow! Meanwhile I’m in the midst of setting up a date for tomorrow with this new girl (a 29 year old with a Bangin’ body!) and stalker girl is sending me her webcam so I can watch her, and my webcam so she can watch me (I don’t get this webcam thing, how come so many chicks like to watch your cam? All you’re doing is sitting there typing, it’s so incredibly lame)
While on webcam I call the 29 year old to set up a date, while stalker girl watches me. Then I left while the webcam was on, and she of course was sitting there alone on cam.
After listening to this 29 year old talk my ear off for 2 hours, I came back and stalker was gone, all pissed off. She left messages like “Oh I guess you went to see another girl. That’s fine, blah blah blah.”
The whole point of me seeing multiple women is so that they DON’T get attached, and now not only is this girl attached, but other girls are getting attached as well!
Guys, I’m telling you from my current experience, don’t get involved with TONS of girls unless you want TONS of girls getting attached to you. You will have the most insane cell phone bills, because they won’t only be calling you, they’ll also be texting you! And let me tell you… Girls like to talk and text!
I’m thinking I actually DO have a Superpower at this time, because with each passing day girls are getting more and more crazy over me. I’m not trying to brag, but 8 months ago this was not the case. 8 months ago I had NO girls calling me. Now all of a sudden they can’t seem to leave me alone! I feel like I’m Brad Pitt or something.
I have so much knowledge in my head right now. I know exactly what I’m doing, and why these girls are going crazy for me. And I really wish I could sum it all up into ONE statement. One statement which displays exactly what I’ve changed, so you can change that part about yourself as well.
Unfortunately, I can’t… As so many different aspects of myself have changed it’d be impossible to say it was any one thing. More like a bombardment of things/situations I’ve done or put my self through. New belief patterns I’ve taken on are also a big one.
But want to know the best part? Now that I’m at this level it seems SO UTTERLY EASY! I remember 8 months ago the thought of setting up a date with a girl, or meeting a girl, was the most daunting thing I could possibly think of. But today? I have more dates than I can shake my dick at. Most of the time, the girls set up the dates FOR ME! I mean I know it’s the mans job to take control and to lead, but the past 2 days I’ve had THREE different girls ask to hang out with me. I don’t even have to ask anymore! I can literally sit at home and do nothing and girls will some how be magnetized towards me, approach me, and set up dates. All I have to do is be ready and accepting of it.
If you guys stick with it, and keep going. You can get here too! I’m living proof that a guy who started off with no dates, can become a guy who has more girls into him than all his friends combined.
- Jack Coxwell
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Two words, Holy F*ck. This has by far inspired me the most to get into the Pick Up Arts. Thank you Jack!
UPDATE*************
Just got back from my date with the 29 year old, and it’s 4:26 AM… All I have to say is DAMN! I really dig this girl.
I learned it makes them want you more if you be the one to tell them “I don’t fuck on the first date.” so I made sure sex never happened yet – as I intend to see this girl again. That’s not to say she didn’t try… In fact it was her who first told me “I don’t fuck on the first date.” I spun it around and made my self the one who said sex doesn’t happen. At which point she began coming onto me so hard words cannot describe!
I feel like a million bucks. I have cracked the code which is “girl.” Aaahh, words cannot express how great it feels to not only be able to pickup girls. but to have them fall head over heals for you almost instantly.
I don’t mean to brag by any means, but I cannot help but express to you guys the amount of progress I’ve made. I see all these REALLY good looking guys on TV shows like “The real world,” and even when they do pull girls, the girls aren’t crazy about them. These guys have camera’s on them 24/7, look like big shots to the girls, and they can barely manage to bring girls back to their house for sex. I go out, and I become this chick magnet, and not only that, I also become the absolute exception to EVERY rule a girl makes.
For example, If a girl says she makes guys wait 3 months before sex, it means she’ll be begging me for it that same night. It’s just unreal the amount of power I have now.
I better stop this rant before some kind of cockyness seeps through my words. The last thing I want is for this ability to give me an ego, and in fact it has done the exact opposite. Which is one of the reasons I’m so great at not only picking up girls, but getting them to fall for me. I am never trying to show off, or prove anything to them. I come across as having incredible value because of this reason alone. I never justify my actions, or make excuses for my self. I am what I am, and they accept and love me for this freedom. Not many people on this earth can say “Here I am, judge me, attack me, love me, hate me, I will always remain unscathed and in the exact same state as you found me.
This makes it so that you pass all her “Tests” immediately. And let me tell you, tonight I got tested up the wall! She tested if I’d get jealous with her, by explaining dates with other guys, she even tested me by telling me I HAD TO LEAVE at one point! She made it VERY clear I had to be out of her house at a certain time. I simply smiled and nodded in agreement. In the end I stayed there 2 hours past my appointed “Leave time.” Not only that, she begged me to spend the night and sleep over. How’s that for passing a test.
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Have you watched the blueprint decoded? Obviously why would you now but it talks about how having NO ego is a super magnet for girls…I guess your proof of that buddy
cool jack i just read this post. good stuff and inspiring too =)
interesting about the ego, the stalker girl, the shit tests… keep up the good work sir
It’s sounds like the girls are starting to frazzle you a bit. Does any of this mean that part of you regrets getting to this point with women?
There really is no secret to this. The key word here is ‘Abundance’
If you can show a girl that you can walk away and pick up another girl within 15 minutes. trust me, she WILL put her guards down. A lot of girls conventionally think they have you by the balls the minute you hook up with them thinking theyre all you have and are lucky to be with them. So they relentlessly do crazy things to use and abuse you, like making you buy them drinks and dinners on dates. Showing off by flirting with ther men in clubs etc…
I had this happen to me recently… But since reading this, it all makes sense… This is the secret formula:
1) Start off wanting ‘open relationships’ (Depeding if you’re experienced or a newbie, either pick up other women on the side with your skills, or fake it by pretending you have other things to do by seeing other girls even if you don’t, but this takes immense inner game and self control)
2) Get the girl jealous and make her compete…. This follows on from the first step as if she resists at any point to anything, tell her you’re leaving and hooking with another girl. Or if you’re not that relentless, tell her you can’t be bothered just hanging out and leave. She’l get the message and know you have other options to fall back on.
3) Have sex on YOUR terms. Lay down the rules that if you’re not having fun, the relationship isn’t going to work.
4) Breed confidence. All of these steps will improve your confidence to a level where you know you don’t need women to make you feel happy, and this will make you more attractive…
Lastly 5) Make them want to have you for themselves… Eventually they will wat to cling onto you and have a fully fledged relationship… Which WILL work long term. they will know you have the power to walk away and get another girl quickly, so they will try everything to keep you close…
these steps are proven to work… Jack, you’re a good example of this… I figured this out ‘cos i learned this trick through a girl i was seeing who was a ‘feminist’ and didn’t believe in monogomous relationships and played this relentless game on me, and not being smart enough to figure it out at the time…
So go out guys and give it a try…
Onder,
One last comment… Jack, if you want to ever get rid of a girl, deliberately act like a chode… lol
Adam, you know there is such a thing called unlimited txting plan lol
Anway, yeah I would be curious too, if you ever regret that you’ve gotten so far? I mean in terms of that girls want to get more serious with you now and such.
how do u get laid so easily? i never did but it seems like it takes an aweful lot of effort to do it.. i mean, i wouldnt do it with anybody, i would like one that indeed has to be a 9 or so, but smart as well, knows how to play the game, not one that would b a 5-6 and give in. these girls r either virgins so they r too stuck up, or party a lot but thats all they do, not go for guys that much only if they really attract them.
thanks
First off, I just want to say that I admire your progress and your determination to overcome your obstacles and fears of women. I’ve watched all your videos and hooked plenty of groups. After reading this blog though, I wish you had a video where it shows you escalating to more sexual stages as when I first started this, I would constantly fall into the “friend zone” trap. Right now, it’s hit or miss. I don’t know what I’m doing differently from one time to the next. If you could post one (video/blog) with more detail on this, I’m sure it’d help out alot more guys. Keep doin what you’re doin! Hope you haven’t caught any STDs yet! LoL.
Guys, all of your problems will be solved if you folow the guide i posted… Here’s the beauty of wanting ‘open relationships’
When you tell them this, at first they will be disgusted but this is for a reason… Girls know that doing open relationships is an effective tool because it makes the other person on the receiving end want to invest more and mroe into the relationship.
And girls don’t like that idea, not because it’s filthy but because of the element of control which they feel they’ll be lacking when going into the relationship with the guy, hence why they become sexually aroused, cos you have other women on the side who also want to be with you…
Secondly, it will put them all in their best behaviour and put you in control, and if you seriously want a monogomous relationship at that point, you can and will end up being a solid, no nonsense relationship with no games involved since you will have at that point demonstrated your prizability and dominance. She will drop her prudish behaviour and become an honest, giving girlfriend who now knows in the back of her mind that one slight mistake will have you walk away and pick up another girl within 15 minutes to replace her
This is why it’s so important for us guys to know these skills… Pickup in itself is not difficult, all it takes is the balls to approach and make the girls feel good about themselves… Once you can make them smile and laugh, it’s game over… Go for the close and follow through.. The rest is plain sailing…
Onder,
>I’m not trying to brag, but 8 months ago this was not the case. 8 >months ago I had NO girls calling me. Now all of a sudden they can’t >seem to leave me alone! I feel like I’m Brad Pitt or something.
Inspiring…
Wow lovely hotties you have here , thank you and I hope for more soon !