Online Dating Doesn’t Work

This is why Online Dating isn’t working for you.

I’m about to post you a conversation I had over e-mail. This is the RAW uncensored truth that most PUA’s don’t want you to know.

I will post the entire message history in a moment. First I want to show you my final e-mail back to him. The points I cover may very well be why you’re having issues meeting women online — or even in real life:

 

The real truth that none of these e-books will tell you, is that sometimes your personality just demonstrates unattractive traits. Period. What you have to do to have ANY success is to stop demonstrating the traits that repel women, and start to demonstrate the ones that attract women. No shit, right?

Easier said than done.

The next part of the truth is that you’re probably not good at meeting women in real life. The two work as partners. If you can’t attract women outside of the online world, what makes you think you’ll be able to attract them via the internet? If anything getting girls is even HARDER online – NOT easier. It’s harder because you have less tools to work with. In real life you can demonstrate your confidence and appeal through your demeanor. The way you walk, the speed of your voice, the energy your words carry. When you’re trying to meet women online you can’t demonstrate ANY of these qualities. All you get to do is talk through text… Which is a sad, pathetic way to attract any type woman.

Because of this you have to be EXCEEDINGLY counter intuitive. Women get so many messages from men you have to stand out in one of two ways – or if you can – in both these ways. You have to be VERY attractive. Either have very attractive facial features, or have a shredded body. Second (and more important than looks) you have to demonstrate that you are the type of man women want. But you can’t just say, “I’m the type of guy women want. I get SO many chicks.” You must do this indirectly. Something most guys fail miserably at doing.

Truth is I can write you a profile that will have ANY woman think you’re one of the most amazing men on the whole site. But if your conversational skills suck, or if you can’t attract women in person what good would that do? You’ll meet her and she’ll realize everything you said was a facade. Your true persona won’t be congruent to the one you demonstrated on the site. And you will fail.

You must master the principles of an attractive man IN REAL LIFE – before trying to apply it to women online. To do this is actually quite simple. If you so much as follow my video’s and take after what I’ve done you will be able to get there. Or if you’re interested in the more direct approach just give my e-book a read. And if NONE of that helps, you may want to consider seeking live coaching from my self, or someone equally qualified as me who can truly help you blast through this part of your life.

Anyway, I really hope everything works out for you man! If you really want the profile writing service I’m still willing to do that for you, just please keep in mind everything else I have said. I know, some of what I typed may be a bit harsh. But you’ve been working on mastering this for so long I want you to be well aware of the reality many of the e-books or so called “Pua’s” out there don’t like to talk about.

- Jack Coxwell

And here’s our entire conversation:

Hey Jack,

I looked at your online dating tip video’s and tried to apply them to my profile and even tried your messaging tips and i still haven’t gotten any random messages from any girls wanting to get to know me or talk with me. Plus i’ve sent out 40 to 50 messages to girls and all they do is view my profile and they never ever write me back. Which is very frustrating because i really do take the time to read their profiles and apply a few things they say in their profile to the messages that i send them and still get nothing at all. What i’am i doing wrong? Is it my pictures or my profile contact? Are they just playing games

I’ve been doing this online dating thing for almost 2 and a half years and in those 2 and 1/2 years i’ve only gotten 2 random messages from girls wanting to get to know me. I want to have success like you and have options of different women to choose from. I know they say that your the selector and if they don’t respond then it’s their loss but after a awhile you start to not believe that because no matter how many messages you send out no one ever sends anything back. It makes you think it’s you or your looks. Jack i have no idea what to do anymore i really just want to give up this whole online dating thing.

- David

 

It could very well be your pictures. Try putting your pictures up on a rating website like www.facethejury.com and only use the pictures in your profile that receive the best reaction from the girls.

I know it can be hard sometimes when you keep trying and get nothing back. I’ve personally been working on mastering the online dating stuff for over 6 years now. Before I even heard of “Game” I was on a site called lavalife trying to meet virtual girls. It took me 4 years till I finally figured it out. I never used to meet ANYONE off of the sites. The only messages I’d ever get were from the overweight fat women. It really sucked. I definitely feel your pain. If you visit my site there’s a section under coaching (here’s the link http://www.mypuajourney.com/coaching/profile-writing/) where you can purchase my profile writing service.

Basically how it works is I’ll work directly with you to create the best profile possible. For the exact type of women you’re after.

I’d also like to look over the messages you’ve been sending. That could very well be the problem also.

- Jack Coxwell

 

Hey Jack,

Thanks for taking the time to write. I wish i wouldn’t have deleted my whole outbox in frustration of all the girls that just viewed my profile and never wrote back but i could always just view someone i want to message and give you an example of the message. I even have went so far as to buy different online game e-books and try to apply there tips to my profile and to be honest the only thing helpful is there photo ideas. As far as the profile content goes it’s hard because they tell you what to write and that’s great but as far as selling yourself it’s impossible.

I just don’t want to waste another $70 bucks on another hopeless online dating ebook that won’t help me in the long run. Lavalife heard of that one i’ve tryed the lavalife phone thing to meet women and have been successful and a few girls are hit and miss. I’ve tryed criagslist but only got fat girls so i know how you feel for sure about that one. From online dating i have met a few girls but not the hot girls that i desire. I kinda settle for the girls that i can get and not the girls i know i deserve to have.

The profile writing service would be awesome because i know your profile was real and i can at least tell you what i’m looking for and you can get an idea. Just wanna weed out all the ones that i wouldn’t want. Might have you write my OkCupid profile because that site seems to be the hardest to crack but POF seems to have more women to choose from. I’ll look into the profile writing i’ll keep in touch thanks

- David

 

Sometimes you can’t deny the truth. If you’ve been trying this hard the truth is you’re doing something wrong. I know you are aware of this, or else you wouldn’t still be seeking help in this area.

The real truth that none of these e-books will tell you, is that sometimes your personality just demonstrates unattractive traits. Period. What you have to do to have ANY success period is to stop demonstrating the traits that repel women, and start to demonstrate the ones that flip her attraction switches on.

Easier said than done.

The next part of the truth is that you’re probably not good at meeting women in real life. The two work as partners. If you can’t attract women outside of the online world, what makes you think you’ll be able to attract them via the internet? If anything getting girls is even HARDER online – NOT easier. It’s harder because you have less tools to work with. In real life you can demonstrate your confidence and appeal through your demeanor. The way you walk, the speed of your voice, the energy your words carry. When you’re trying to meet women online you can’t demonstrate ANY of these qualities. All you get to do is talk through text… Which is a sad, pathetic way to attract any type woman.

Because of this you have to be EXCEEDINGLY counter intuitive. Women get so many messages from men you have to stand out in one of two ways – or if you can – in both these ways. You have to be VERY attractive. Either have very attractive facial features, or have a shredded body. Second (and more important than looks) you have to demonstrate that you are the type of man women want. But you can’t just say, “I’m the type of guy women want. I get SO many chicks.” You must do this indirectly. Something most guys fail miserably at doing.

Truth is I can write you a profile that will have ANY woman think you’re one of the most amazing men on the whole site. But if your conversational skills suck, or if you can’t attract women in person what good would that do? You’ll meet her and she’ll realize everything you said was a facade. Your true persona won’t be congruent to the one you demonstrated on the site. And you will fail.

What must be done is for you to master the principles of an attractive man IN REAL LIFE – before trying to apply it to women online. And to do this in real life is actually quite simple. If you even follow my video’s and take after what I’ve done you will be able to get there. Or if you’re interested in the more direct approach just give my e-book a read. And if NONE of that helps, you may want to consider seeking live coaching from my self, or someone equally qualified as me who can truly help you blast through this part of your life.

Anyway, I really hope everything works out for you man! If you really want the profile writing service I’m still willing to do that for you, just please keep in mind everything else I have said. I know, some of what I typed may be a bit harsh. But you’ve been working on mastering this for so long I want you to be well aware of the reality many of the e-books or so called “Pua’s” out there don’t like to talk about.

- Jack Coxwell