Comments on: *The Ultimate Dweeb* http://www.mypuajourney.com Tue, 10 Jan 2012 19:36:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Trevor http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-27593 Trevor Sun, 27 Dec 2009 08:44:21 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-27593 You're good shit. I learned the hard way.... Grew a sack, filled it with some balls, went to the mall and told every girl I wanted to date that her earrings matched her necklace perfectly... You newbies will shit yourselves at what you will learn after only the first one. Then do it 74 more times that day... It's like riding a bike, once the training wheels are off, you can get on and ride anytime you want. ps. love the vids.. Cheers boys! You’re good shit. I learned the hard way…. Grew a sack, filled it with some balls, went to the mall and told every girl I wanted to date that her earrings matched her necklace perfectly…

You newbies will shit yourselves at what you will learn after only the first one. Then do it 74 more times that day…
It’s like riding a bike, once the training wheels are off, you can get on and ride anytime you want.

ps. love the vids..

Cheers boys!

]]> By: Onder http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-9751 Onder Wed, 04 Mar 2009 11:56:02 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-9751 Having made a post about this earlier in a forum... I figured i might as well point it out here as well as it clearly relates... I think it is important to read up on theory, but only to be aware of it. It only becomes a detrimental factor when you're consciously thinking about the processes when you're talking to women... the idea is to learnt he theory and to then forget about it and to trust that your subconscious will naturally make you refer to the theory naturally without thinking about it... This is a very weird thing to say but trust me when i say this, but it makes sense... This is what makes guys who have acquired this ability a lot more powerful than the born naturals or the guys who just became naturals through trial and error, 'cos you're infield experience becomes aligned with the theory that you already know, so as a result become that much more knowledgeable with what makes women attracted to you... It all goes hand in hand... One experience i've had was when i hung out with a friend of mine who's club promoter and a natural. He knew about the game but what he eventually pointed out to me was that the reason why i learned and developed my game so fast was not because i hung out with him (Which did help in some way) but the fact that i was aware about the attraction process based on the theory i learned, so whenever i experienced something at first hand and it aligned with the theory i already knew, it gave me 'aha' moments which in turn helped me develop... So i guess to sum up, yes its good to just wing it and be yourself, however, it's always a good idea to have the basic theory down in your mind in order to help your unconscious process it in order to develop... this is the key to become truly great... Having made a post about this earlier in a forum… I figured i might as well point it out here as well as it clearly relates… I think it is important to read up on theory, but only to be aware of it. It only becomes a detrimental factor when you’re consciously thinking about the processes when you’re talking to women… the idea is to learnt he theory and to then forget about it and to trust that your subconscious will naturally make you refer to the theory naturally without thinking about it…

This is a very weird thing to say but trust me when i say this, but it makes sense… This is what makes guys who have acquired this ability a lot more powerful than the born naturals or the guys who just became naturals through trial and error, ‘cos you’re infield experience becomes aligned with the theory that you already know, so as a result become that much more knowledgeable with what makes women attracted to you…

It all goes hand in hand… One experience i’ve had was when i hung out with a friend of mine who’s club promoter and a natural. He knew about the game but what he eventually pointed out to me was that the reason why i learned and developed my game so fast was not because i hung out with him (Which did help in some way) but the fact that i was aware about the attraction process based on the theory i learned, so whenever i experienced something at first hand and it aligned with the theory i already knew, it gave me ‘aha’ moments which in turn helped me develop…

So i guess to sum up, yes its good to just wing it and be yourself, however, it’s always a good idea to have the basic theory down in your mind in order to help your unconscious process it in order to develop…

this is the key to become truly great…

]]> By: Mr http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-6962 Mr Tue, 30 Dec 2008 22:07:58 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-6962 Exactly, how can you say that the books don't work or haven't done anything for you.... when you've read them! You can only objectively say so when you haven't read them yet. I mean you might still be unconsiously using stuff you learned from the books. And like duhhh says they made you go out and try stuff initialy. We all know that in the end what you say about confidence is true. If you're truly confident and you dont'give a f*ck THAT'S how you attract women. However... to get there you can take multiple paths; you can get there just trying; without reading any books, meanwhile discovering stuff that you DO read in books for yourself. Or you can read books. The things is, you need a jumpstart! YOu need a few successes to get confidence to get MORE successes! And it's a ball that keeps on roling. That's why you said "it just happens' like a switch. And I've seen your last video's and you DID use stuff that i've seen online too. Now I myself haven't read any books, but I've read some comments and stuff from keys to the vip etc. that i recognize in your "natural" game also. Like attraction, comfort, seduction. And little tactics like posture, stepping back when one is showing interest. Waiting for her to show interest before you show some. You do that. Exactly, how can you say that the books don’t work or haven’t done anything for you…. when you’ve read them! You can only objectively say so when you haven’t read them yet. I mean you might still be unconsiously using stuff you learned from the books. And like duhhh says they made you go out and try stuff initialy.

We all know that in the end what you say about confidence is true. If you’re truly confident and you dont’give a f*ck THAT’S how you attract women. However… to get there you can take multiple paths; you can get there just trying; without reading any books, meanwhile discovering stuff that you DO read in books for yourself. Or you can read books. The things is,

you need a jumpstart! YOu need a few successes to get confidence to get MORE successes! And it’s a ball that keeps on roling. That’s why you said “it just happens’ like a switch.

And I’ve seen your last video’s and you DID use stuff that i’ve seen online too. Now I myself haven’t read any books, but I’ve read some comments and stuff from keys to the vip etc. that i recognize in your “natural” game also. Like attraction, comfort, seduction. And little tactics like posture, stepping back when one is showing interest. Waiting for her to show interest before you show some. You do that.

]]> By: duhhh http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-6115 duhhh Fri, 05 Dec 2008 21:37:08 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-6115 All the e-boos and tactics you learn from them arent a hoax, its a way to get you where you feel you are now (i doubt it tho after just 8 months) but still, its supposed to make you go out there and be social with woman, and every single famous PUA have completly dropped tactics and gone natural at some point, where after dealing with hundreds.... thousands of approaches has removed all AA, successes have given them a good energy and a positive attitude about themselves. The books are not a hoax, but it does require alot of training and eventually you wont need them anymore. Its not like you wouldnt have been where you feel you are today if not for the books, they encouraged you to go out there. Dont forget that. All the e-boos and tactics you learn from them arent a hoax, its a way to get you where you feel you are now (i doubt it tho after just 8 months) but still, its supposed to make you go out there and be social with woman, and every single famous PUA have completly dropped tactics and gone natural at some point, where after dealing with hundreds…. thousands of approaches has removed all AA, successes have given them a good energy and a positive attitude about themselves. The books are not a hoax, but it does require alot of training and eventually you wont need them anymore.
Its not like you wouldnt have been where you feel you are today if not for the books, they encouraged you to go out there. Dont forget that.

]]> By: TIM http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-5962 TIM Sun, 30 Nov 2008 02:51:16 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-5962 awesome post man i just got home after being blown out of a couple of sets and what you wrote picked up my spirits as for nig nig, take it easy dude do what works for you lets not bicker around like we're debating religion or somethin awesome post man
i just got home after being blown out of a couple of sets
and what you wrote picked up my spirits

as for nig nig, take it easy dude do what works for you
lets not bicker around like we’re debating religion or somethin

]]> By: MC http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-5698 MC Tue, 18 Nov 2008 20:07:01 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-5698 I maybe shouldn't post here, since I can't speak from experience myself, but I'd have to agree with sugar, and nignig. It all depends on what you want you know. If you just want to have a girl to have fun with, I'm sure those lines of mystery etc will work fine. But that does not mean that the girl really likes you. She might find you funny sure, but that's about it.... I think Jack is doing a great thing here with sharing his experience from the beginning on, and trying to help others and even if it is just in the field of getting more confidence in oneself, or getting better with women, in a way that they feel more attracted to you, because as he said "your energy changed" But that is just my opinion on this matter, and everybody has his/her own, so be it lol I maybe shouldn’t post here, since I can’t speak from experience myself, but I’d have to agree with sugar, and nignig.
It all depends on what you want you know.
If you just want to have a girl to have fun with, I’m sure those lines of mystery etc will work fine. But that does not mean that the girl really likes you. She might find you funny sure, but that’s about it….
I think Jack is doing a great thing here with sharing his experience from the beginning on, and trying to help others and even if it is just in the field of getting more confidence in oneself, or getting better with women, in a way that they feel more attracted to you, because as he said “your energy changed”
But that is just my opinion on this matter, and everybody has his/her own, so be it lol

]]> By: sugar http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-5414 sugar Thu, 30 Oct 2008 22:55:51 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-5414 id much rather approach the game the way jack does than be some douche with canned game who just goes around tricking girls. id rather fuck half as many girls that actually like the real me than a bunch that are just dumb enough to fall for some scripts and "kino" which leads me to my next point - the termanology of "pua" is just fuckin gay, jack is trying to teach people to be more comfortable in their own skin which will in turn attract people to them, keep up the good work jack this is the only site i will visit from now on when it comes to "gaming" id much rather approach the game the way jack does than be some douche with canned game who just goes around tricking girls. id rather fuck half as many girls that actually like the real me than a bunch that are just dumb enough to fall for some scripts and “kino” which leads me to my next point – the termanology of “pua” is just fuckin gay, jack is trying to teach people to be more comfortable in their own skin which will in turn attract people to them, keep up the good work jack this is the only site i will visit from now on when it comes to “gaming”

]]> By: nignig http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-4294 nignig Sat, 13 Sep 2008 18:29:05 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-4294 jack said None of these skills you are learning (skills such as story telling, negging, push/pull) are going to change the type of person YOU are DEEP DOWN. yes they do jackass at first I was a mumbly stumbling character who was funny and only interview styled girls now I'm all of a sudden more interesting and having smoother conversations with women i learned the outside techniques and absorbed it internally now im smooth and interesting as well as funny you wouldnt know the transformation a person goes thru from afc to pua using canned game cuz your still an afc and you tried canned game didnt understand and quit now your shooting shit in the dark ........your not above canned game Essentially, their minds are twisted the wrong way! It reads as if it’s “Too good to be true,” because it very damn well IS too good to be true. A few tactics are never going to change who you really are. Sure, you might get some girls numbers. but good luck on those dates you’ll be having! Hell, good luck even getting them to pickup the phone see this proves that you dont understand game at all ..shit isnt too good to be true youd be amazed at shit you can do when you GRASP and apply the material effectively I thought it was too good to be true when I attracted this dudes girlfriend with him 5 feet away Im talkin her invited me to sit next to her her applying hand holdin kino her tryin to remove to boyfriend from our interaction her tellin me personal things shouldnt wouldnt tell him her followin my orders ignoring his ......now do you think it would be a struggle to get this TAKEN girl to pickup the phone ........ Now I want you to ask me how I manage to pull girls on a consistent rate, and consistently have them fall for me (and no, it’s not my looks) they are not your ability to recognize when a girl is attracted to you is non existent if they are fallin for you then you wouldnt have to try so much in your interactions I am annoyed and saddened at how much this whole “Community” tricks people. It tricks people into thinking with a few memorized lines and few easy tactics you’ll be getting women in no time thats why you go out with it and test it in the field until you understand the material you gotta understand why so you can apply effectively my guess is you never did that and now your bashing mystery (a genuine master pua) cuz your ass was unsuccessful with canned game ha) you sound like some delusional motherfucker who got a number close and now you think you know shit your inner game aint fixed you got this ego thing thats stoppin you from real not imaginery success at pickup girls you live in fantasy land where you need no canned game and never get rejected shit I bombed with an average 2 set yesterday and I have better game than you so you dont get rejected merely you dont put yourself in enough challenging situations situations where you leave your comfort zone ...im out hopefully this post will help you cuz right now you aint helping yourself or anyone for that matter jack said

None of these skills you are learning (skills such as story telling, negging, push/pull) are going to change the type of person YOU are DEEP DOWN.

yes they do jackass at first I was a mumbly stumbling character who was funny and only interview styled girls now I’m all of a sudden more interesting and having smoother conversations with women i learned the outside techniques and absorbed it internally now im smooth and interesting as well as funny you wouldnt know the transformation a person goes thru from afc to pua using canned game cuz your still an afc and you tried canned game didnt understand and quit now your shooting shit in the dark ……..your not above canned game

Essentially, their minds are twisted the wrong way! It reads as if it’s “Too good to be true,” because it very damn well IS too good to be true. A few tactics are never going to change who you really are. Sure, you might get some girls numbers. but good luck on those dates you’ll be having! Hell, good luck even getting them to pickup the phone

see this proves that you dont understand game at all ..shit isnt too good to be true youd be amazed at shit you can do when you GRASP and apply the material effectively I thought it was too good to be true when I attracted this dudes girlfriend with him 5 feet away Im talkin her invited me to sit next to her her applying hand holdin kino her tryin to remove to boyfriend from our interaction her tellin me personal things shouldnt wouldnt tell him her followin my orders ignoring his ……now do you think it would be a struggle to get this TAKEN girl to pickup the phone ……..

Now I want you to ask me how I manage to pull girls on a consistent rate, and consistently have them fall for me (and no, it’s not my looks)

they are not your ability to recognize when a girl is attracted to you is non existent if they are fallin for you then you wouldnt have to try so much in your interactions

I am annoyed and saddened at how much this whole “Community” tricks people. It tricks people into thinking with a few memorized lines and few easy tactics you’ll be getting women in no time

thats why you go out with it and test it in the field until you understand the material you gotta understand why so you can apply effectively my guess is you never did that and now your bashing mystery (a genuine master pua) cuz your ass was unsuccessful with canned game ha)

you sound like some delusional motherfucker who got a number close and now you think you know shit your inner game aint fixed you got this ego thing thats stoppin you from real not imaginery success at pickup girls you live in fantasy land where you need no canned game and never get rejected shit I bombed with an average 2 set yesterday and I have better game than you so you dont get rejected merely you dont put yourself in enough challenging situations situations where you leave your comfort zone …im out hopefully this post will help you cuz right now you aint helping yourself or anyone for that matter

]]> By: Shiva63 http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-4278 Shiva63 Sat, 13 Sep 2008 08:41:36 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-4278 Amen dude, I was listening to parts of tyler's blueprint yesterday which focused on identity, being congruent with what you say. It had a bout the same conclusion as your post. Focus on being you, maintain your frame, know deep inside you are the best catch. Dont try to live up to other people's standards. Live in the moment, dont worry on reacting to other people. Let them react to you. I don't believe I will ever pull it off opening a girl with the opener: Who lies more, girls or guys? And make her interested in continuing the conversation. I just don't believe I want to hear the answer. I think situational openers are much more congruent with what you are thinking. Your videos are an inspiration! Amen dude,

I was listening to parts of tyler’s blueprint yesterday which focused on identity, being congruent with what you say. It had a bout the same conclusion as your post. Focus on being you, maintain your frame, know deep inside you are the best catch.

Dont try to live up to other people’s standards.
Live in the moment, dont worry on reacting to other people.
Let them react to you.

I don’t believe I will ever pull it off opening a girl with the opener: Who lies more, girls or guys? And make her interested in continuing the conversation. I just don’t believe I want to hear the answer. I think situational openers are much more congruent with what you are thinking.

Your videos are an inspiration!

]]> By: Deckard http://www.mypuajourney.com/blog1/the-ultimate-dweeb/#comment-2971 Deckard Tue, 12 Aug 2008 03:55:40 +0000 http://www.mypuajourney.com/?page_id=89#comment-2971 Holy shit! You've just written the best piece I've ever read about the whole PUA community contrasted with what it REALLY means to have your personal shit together. You're talking about your "inner game" here and what it means to truly embody the confidence that guys who are naturally good with the ladies have and always have had. True belief in oneself without needing all the tricks and deception. I look forward to seeing what you have to offer in this regard! Holy shit! You’ve just written the best piece I’ve ever read about the whole PUA community contrasted with what it REALLY means to have your personal shit together. You’re talking about your “inner game” here and what it means to truly embody the confidence that guys who are naturally good with the ladies have and always have had. True belief in oneself without needing all the tricks and deception.

I look forward to seeing what you have to offer in this regard!

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