Episode 5
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CONCLUSION
Overall the puzzle is fitting together. We’re starting to grasp things on a far deeper level. That being said, this “deeper level” is actually less complicated than the level we visited prior. The further you go, the simpler things become! It sounds crazy, I know. But everything just begins to look so clear, and you finally understand what you need to do!
And none of it involves following anyones particular method. That’s right, we’re breaking away. This doesn’t come from a place of conceit. I want to make that very clear. This comes from a place of understanding and the yearning to learn. The various methods available for students of seduction to select from are VERY helpful and have gotten many, many men laid.
We are breaking away for a very real, and overlooked reason. The methods take away from who you really are. The material out there teaches you how to pickup like STYLE would, or how MYSTERY would. If you keep using a method that works for someone else, the only way you’ll get good is if you become that person! Just look at how Matador has practically “become” Mystery.
The methods give you material to use so you’ll Be Interesting. As everyone knows by now, interesting turns into “attractive” very quickly. But many men get stuck on using the same material everyone else uses, and they seem to be O.K. with that. O.K. with the fact that there are hundreds if not thousands of men out there who are JUST THE SAME kind of interesting. using JUST THE SAME lines. There is a piercing false reality to all of this. And it’s a falseness Demetri and I aren’t ready to settle with. In fact I don’t think we’ll ever be ready to “settle with it.”
To become truly good with women, and to truly build a better life. Isn’t reciting someone else’s lines, or following someone else’s checklist. It’s learning about who YOU are. What it is that YOU want. Once these two are perfectly clear, you’ll begin to attract it. Everything you desire will become magnetically charged for you. It can be quite scary actually.
There’s no struggle, There’s no false sense of self. There’s only a calming peace in knowing what you want to become, and knowing what kind of help you want to offer humanity. The community has given us the tools to know what NOT to do. It’s time we all put those tools to good use and developed our own unique style of pick-up. Look at the masters out there and new ones sprouting – do they become masters by cloning into someone else’s mind? Or by devising their own system that works personally for them! Think about it.
If seduction truly is about giving the woman a mind blowing experience, and being the best man you can be. Then I want to do this MY way. Not Mystery’s way, Not Styles way, Not Mehows way, My way! And it’s a “way” I’m continually learning with each passing breath I take.
Sincerely,
Jack Coxwell
ps. don’t confuse my writings and mistake them. I’m NOT passing off the methods as garbage or bad. Many of the lessons they teach are insanely helpful! I’m simply saying I don’t desire to clone my self into the men teaching them, as many men will shamefully deny being guilty of. Just look at how every guy in the “community” uses the same language! They all run around using words like “chode.” When ever I hear a guy call someone a chode I feel like imploding. I can’t tell one guy in the community apart from the other! They all sound identical! I’m seriously frightened.
