Episode #16 – “Go For The Kiss!”
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CONCLUSION:
Jon doesn’t get any ladies. The ladies don’t particularly find Jon to be the most charming, or the most handsome guy. In fact most of the ladies I know think he’s a big creep!
So I’m left asking my self – how did this goofy creep just completely flatter and make these two girls days on his first two approaches ever? Well, if you see things the way I do then the answer is obvious. He was disarming, non-threatening, and you could tell by his energy he didn’t take him self too seriously. When approaching a girl during the day your energy is contagious. If you are all up in your head, vibrating from the fear of the approach these feelings mutate into your facial features and body language – these are features which can repel women away from you better than bug spray does a mosquito!
The trick to being calm and relaxed is simple – have no outcome dependency. This is a feat easier said than done! Most of us have realized this already. Unfortunately (or fortunately) the only way to lesson your outcome dependency and not care what happens is to simply get out there and face your fears. If talking to women scares you – then keep doing it till it’s not as scary! You’ll notice your energy will begin to vibrate at a more relaxed rate, and through this the women you are approaching will be more receptive and open to your approaches. You may even find you begin to get good at meeting women – you may even find it begins to get fun, and even exciting!
- Jack Coxwell
