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CONCLUSION
Are you seeing this!!! Do you see any “approach anxiety” here? I don’t. You want your “AA” gone? Try some of these drills. I don’t even care if it ISN’T Valentines day when you work up the courage to do this. Just get it done!
As for my progress, you’ll have to wait till part 2.
COMMENT! Let me know what you’re liking, and what you’re not liking! And we’ll show more of what you like! (hopefully)
Dimitry you’re badass for a beginner, if you keep working on it abit more, more confidence
JUST GO FOR IT DMITRE.. just talk to her man… dont give her time to think lean back a little..STOP SAYING aww.. or umm
Amazing videos, to be honest though that Jack guy’s a decent looking guy (not in a gay way) so i don’t see why he would find it so difficult to attract girls.
Never the less awesome work
I’m from Colombia pal, your videos ar amaizing
well, just a suggestion, but it would be awesome if you could put subtitles to the convos as much as possible. Im foreigner and im not that good at listening and understandin spoken english in real life, so it would make it easier to follow. Just a suggestion.
Love the work guys you seem like a good genuine group of guys, I liked how you keep raw footage ( failures) as well as your success. I’m a year off being able to f-close but it never hurts to practise rite. I haven’t started with my game yet but will do after my exams, you’ve encouraged me not to quit
Jay ( future guru)
P.s it’s great that it’s free btw, pls dnt chnge a thing!!!
That last card mad me laugh my ass off.
great job doing the approaches! try to Kino (Touch) alot more…You will be surprised with how much shyt you can get away with…even in the mall!
“I can teach you how to squirt” You didn’t have to eject by saying “I guess that means I’m rejected” that’s just sabotaging yourself man, you could’ve easily played that off.
If you changed a few SIMPLE things in your approach and body language it would’ve worked wonders for you.
Eg. (Excuse me)
(Do you mind if..?)
Try to project more confidence as well
Yall ya dudes got game n if ya keep at it, yu gon get better. Tha downside tho: you guys keep asking these girls questions lyk dey in an interview. Yu gata do more open ended q’s and make the girl seem as if she lyks yu already. Treat her lyk yu already outing wit her (if dat is yur intention) bt generally, keep it goin. Ima do sum of dat stuff l8r dis week cos yu inspired me 4 real. One
What is with all the young girls guys? If you are going to a mall you can’t go in the middle of a weekday. Try later in the evening. I know it is probably hard with the video camera. Hope you go after some “legal” girls in later vids
The first girl who got the Valentine; it went pretty well but I think she was diggin him pretty well, a little bit more confidence and less of the silence would work well. At 4:43, the thumbs up! Haha I loved this set, the friends liked him and obviously the girl did too.
i liked how you showed some of the failures as well. i liked how chill and relaxed you were. i think as you keep doing it the body language will work itself out. it’s just a matter of being more relaxed. yeah, i guess it’s not rocket science. this was kind of an example of a ‘direct approach’. and it’s been the only stuff i’ve used so far. i too don’t like telling stories that aren’t true or didn’t happen to me. that’s kind of crap. telling girls that you like them, strangely, works. but there is some rule to doing this that i haven’t quite figured out but am beginning to understand. check out oliver t’s stuff. he’s really into to technique (which every guy needs) and being yourself (but it’s a trick to tease that out of yourself). good luck! you’ve inspired me.
You asked where you approached me, well it was at Isaac’s – Brock’s bar.
I think he should have been more direct with the approaches, after all he is giving them valentines day cards. He was pussy footing around it too much by asking the opinion opener first. And that is where his AA showed. It is like a guy asking a girl if she has a boyfriend first before asking her out, he is scared to go for it so he needs a buffer and that only gets in the way. His body language also needs work.
As one of the girls that fell victim to this “approach” last night by Demetri, I have to say that its a good ice breaker. It’s too bad that the comment on the card I got wasn’t as cute as some of those ones. You should probably try being more genuine if you really want to catch a girl’s attention. Either way, Demetri, I thought you were cute.
I hope that you had no camera man last night, because I really don’t feel like being posted on youtube. Thanks!
Whats up dude.. a buddy of yours told me to check out this site.. I watched this video, and have a few pointers…
1) take your hands out of your pockets (hands in pockets show lower confidence and social status)
2) this has already been mentioned.. don’t say excuse me
3) Gotta radiate confidence through your energy. Women love confident men.
4) Never tell women that you are out trying to pick up women like you did. You said something like, my friends wrote on these cards and told me to hand them out to random women.. if she was intrigued by your initial approach, you killed it by saying this.
All in all, good for you that you are doing what hundreds of thousands of guys can’t do!! Keep it up, confidence breeds success!!
Hey great job, guys! You really inspired me with this one… I prepared 5 cards and took them to the mall tonight, and got ‘er done in less than 10 minutes… NO AA whatsoever. I started the day off really depressed, too, so thanks for giving me the idea that snapped me out of it.
I’ll be starting my own video blog chronicling my inner game issues soon: first episode is being taped tomorrow. Email me and I’ll send you guys the link.
well, just a suggestion, but it would be awesome if you could put subtitles to the convos as much as possible. Im foreigner and im not that good at listening and understandin spoken english in real life, so it would make it easier to follow. Just a suggestion.
I don´t see any approach anxiety there, maybe just a little bit nervousness, when hes hands are in the pockets and his fiddling around a bit. But his voice is relaxed, confident, care-free, seems at least. He seems like he´s got pretty good vibe about himself. I think this guys gonna get good if he keeps on at it.
I think alot of the inner game stuff might be already in check for him, atleast compared to the average shitless scared newbies.
He seems very relaxed. That was very great, hes making the girls laugh and enjoy themselves and she gives him her number, and hes doing it also for himself, cause he wants to (i assume) and it seems hes not JUST after pussy, hes self-amusing. It seems almost like natural game, but sure he has to handle the logistics with outer game.
This is inspirational stuff.
Oh my god you shouldn’t have ejected from the first set, she really dug you dude! Also STOP saying Excuse me! Never say excuse me, please or anything else that sounds like a beggar, also you tend to DLV, you eject way to quickly allot of these girls really dig you but you bail really early. Dude you don’t have to have sex with these girls, even if their under age you can still call them, remember they might have older sisters and its good to have women in your life even if nothing is going to happen.
yoyoyo/ good website, good approaches, good footage/ this is def something new that hasn’t been done b4/ keep it up