Simple pickup’s take on Approach Anxiety – or as they like to call it, “BB” (bitch butterflies).

I found this episode to be extremely motivational. I especially like their analogy of relating the anxiety to a roller coaster ride. However I would like to elaborate a wee bit more about a common misconception most men have in regards to their approach anxiety:

Like Kong says in the simple pickup video, the anxiety never goes away, but it does lessen. From my own experience I have found this to be true for the most part, except if you stop for a long period of time. In which case it does come back full swing. Say for example you stop approaching women for over 2 months after going at it hard. You’ll be more nervous than if you had just done it yesterday.

It’s almost as if it accumulates. The more you do it, the more you accumulate the ability to push beyond the anxiety. But as soon as you stop approaching altogether your ability to beat the anxiety slowly decompresses and it gets more, and more difficult to push yourself to do it.

The biggest thing you have to keep in mind is that the first 1-3 approaches are ALWAYS the most difficult. Once you make it through those first few approaches in any given day or night the rest is cheese cake.

The anxiety never goes away but what ends up happening is the more approaches you do, the more times you face the fear head on – the more your body adapts to being able to overcome fear. You affirm it to yourself and your entire being that it’s okay to be scared. It’s okay to feel terrified even. You teach yourself that you’re going to do it anyway in spite of that fear.

This lesson, when applied again and again can start to wreak profound changes. Eventually your overall confidence goes up. You start to realize that you have more power over your life than you ever imagined. Now this is a powerful notion. Once you realize you have the power to go for what YOU want, and to shape your own future – that’s when you begin to evolve and grow into the person you always dreamed of.

- Jack Coxwell

This website stands as a beacon to every man who ever felt like they weren’t good enough to get a hot girl. When you take a guy who was picked on his whole life for being short and pimple faced, give him a bad break up, and light a fire under his ass success is bound to happen. Watch Jack’s Journey and see for yourself that no matter who you are you can attract hot women and live the life you only dreamed of.

These guys exploded out of the gates with one of the most hilarious pickup video’s I’ve ever seen. To put it bluntly, it was with an Asian guy picking up girls while talking about his penis. Stereo types aside this had me toppling over with laughter.

Here’s the video if you haven’t seen it yet:

From here on they continued their thunderous run with even more outrageous video’s. From picking up girls using StarCraft geek lingo, to closing girls dressed like Harry Potter these guys are the real deal.

Their Starcraft episode:

Why do I like simple pickup so much? Because they remind me of my self! In EVERY single one of their approaches they are either ‘direct’ from the get go, or they quickly transfer into being genuine.

What I mean by this is they tell the women their TRUE INTENTIONS from the start. You’ll notice they use lines like, “I saw you guys and I had to come over here to meet you,” and “You were so adorable I had to come say hi.” Or even they’ll ask for directions and then say something like, “Actually I don’t care where Starbucks is. You guys were cute so I wanted to say hi.”

Being upfront with your intentions is one of the biggest keys to mastering this pickup game. This is because when ever you approach a stranger, be it male or female, the first thing this person is thinking is ALWAYS, “why is this person talking to me?” When you’re upfront with them from the beginning it not only demonstrates nothing but positive attractive qualities, but it makes the interaction run more smoothly. The person you’re talking to is aware of your intent from the beginning. This crushes that awkward tension that happens when you’re talking to someone you don’t know.

Even watch their latest “simple tips” episode and they agree with me. Scroll to 2:40 and he says this EXACT same thing as I’m saying.

To sum up my review I’d say the guys at Simple Pickup are taking this PUA scene over by storm. They don’t even have anything for sale. Hell, they don’t even have a website! They are pure youtube video’s. Their only source of revenue is from the google ads that display on their youtube vid’s. This clearly demonstrates they aren’t out to trick anyone out of their money, and aren’t doing this simply for monetary gain. And that makes them just THAT much more enjoyable to watch.

- Jack Coxwell

HERE’S THE NO BULL SHIT SECRET TO SLEEPING WITH HOT WOMEN.

Guys I’m tired of all the bull shit surrounding this. All the lies, and deception. I’m tired of seeing PUA’s make promises that their “life changing” systems will get you women over night. It doesn’t happen like that for most men. Period.

Don’t want to hear the truth? Good, go blow your money on a half assed product promising to get you laid by a super model and ten of her playmates tomorrow night. You deserve to lose some of your hard earned cash. I know in the beginning I lost a shit load of mine… that was before I got smart.

I’m about to expose the real secret to success with women. This is something that none of my competitors or the pickup guru’s would ever want you to know.

They keep it hidden from you because they know once revealed you’ll stop buying their products.

Wanna know the funny part? It’s so simple and overlooked most of the PUA’s would have you believe it’s not true. They can’t let it be true. If they acknowledged its truth you’d be able to see through their façade.

What is it?

The secret to sleeping with HOT women is PERSISTENCE.

Popular PUA’s would suggest the real secret is having high social value, or knowing what “type” of woman she is before advancing. This is all valid information, but let me ask you something… let me ask you something realistic for a change instead of feeding you hype and promise of instant gains:

If you’re too scared to approach a woman on the street to demonstrate your “high social value” what good are you?

99.9% of men who buy pickup e-books or attend pickup seminars/bootcamps NEVER follow through. Sure, the bootcamp gives them an instant feeling of happiness. It spikes their energy levels and makes them feel all powerful, as if they’re finally going to overcome this fear and pick up every woman they see!

Then reality sets in. A week goes by after the boot camp is over and they’re back to square one. They’re fighting to gain that confidence back and to continue approaching girls.

Truth is there’s a small 0.1% of guys who actually GET GOOD at meeting women. Why is this number so low? Simple.

Lack of persistence.

It’s in your lack of persistence that stops you from mastering this art. It’s rarely a lack of knowledge. I could feed you several books and e-books that’ll give you enough knowledge to transform any slob’s mind into a pickup data base.

But can I take any slob and turn him into a pick up machine? Can I inject the determination and persistence he’ll need to keep getting up time and time again when the women he wants shoots him down?

No. I cannot. That’s something that only YOU can do for your self.

Why do certain pick up methods work if the key to mastery is so utterly SIMPLE?

They work because they get you out of your house and socializing with women. They fill you with a false sense of confidence. You can rest assured knowing that the lines you’ve memorized have worked for others so they must work for you. When in reality it’s not the lines that begin working, it’s your energy that begins working. After enough rejection, enough persistence, you begin to mould into a calm confident relaxed guy.

The truth is with enough practice you become socially “aware.” You start to pick up patterns in the way females behave to you and to each other. You start learning how to calibrate each approach according to the logistics of the situation. You start to notice the subtle signals women share with you when they’re attracted but refuse to admit it.

Ever watch the animated show King of The Hill? There’s an episode where boomhowerd teaches bobby to pickup women. He enters a shoe store and asks every pretty girl he sees if she’ll come back to his house with him. Eventually one says yes.

To master ANY skill you have to persist.

When first learning an instrument no one knows what the hell they’re doing. It seems like NOTHING works, and then finally when they’re about to give up a fire ignites. Everything starts coming together.

Picking up women isn’t math. There’s no one equation to get results. For each of you there is a unique style that will work best for your own unique personality. Everyone who plays the piano does so in their own unique way. Some sound robotic, and others you can feel the raw emotion pouring from each key stroke.

Of course, persistence alone won’t get the job done. You can approach women smelling like BO and burnt cardboard all you want but you’ll see little to no results.

Then again if you know nothing but have persistence on your side eventually you will sleep with more women. In fact you’ll sleep with at least double the amount of women than someone who knows what they’re doing but refuses to approach 80% of the time.

What you really need is to have EVERYTHING in check.

What you want to do is eliminate everything that’s holding you back so you have the LEAST obstacles in your way to more pussy.

That’s where I come in. Once you incorporate the principles outlined in my book not only will how women think make sense to you, but you’ll understand WHY they do what they do. You’ll know how to use their feminine qualities to your advantage.

You’ll learn how to avoid rejection. Imagine never feeling rejected by a woman again? Seems too good to be true doesn’t it. Well it’s not. You never have to feel like you’re not worthy of a beautiful girl ever again.

What do women REALLY want?

Who cares! What women want isn’t important. What’s important is what you want and if she can match up to that.

A-hah! That’s what women want. Women want a MAN. Women want someone who will tell her how it is. Someone who won’t put up with her babyish behaviour and scold her when need be.

Chauvinistic? Not even close. It’s relating to her raw genetic programming. That programming is to find men who behave like MEN incredibly attractive.

Women say they love “funny guys.” But most of their male friends make them laugh on a regular basis. And these are guys stuck in the friend zone. She’d never sleep with them just because they’re funny. You know what women REALLY mean when they say they love “funny” men? Women mean they love a man who can be playful with her and tease her into submission.

One of the key principles is having wit. But it’s hard to have wit if you freeze up every time you see a beautiful girl. The key obtaining wit is to first obtain COMFORT. That’s right, you have to first feel comfortable talking to women before you can learn to be witty with them.

It’s just common sense right?

Everything I teach is common sense. In this day and age sense isn’t so common anymore.

I understand women inside and out. Although I prefer to be on the inside, I do need breaks sometimes. (hahah)

In my book I explain women’s core needs in a simple format. Once you understand what her needs are on a genetic level satisfying her becomes second nature.

You’ll never have a girl break up with you again. In fact if you know how to satisfy all her needs you can get away with pretty much anything and she’ll still be stuck on you like glue.

I’m not proud to admit this but in my earlier years I’ve done some sleazy things. I’ve gone so far as to sleep with girls who were best friends in the same night. I lied to each of them and came clean in the morning.

I’ve slept with a girl’s mother who actually SEDUCED ME! I was in a relationship with her daughter, and let me tell you it was the most bizarre thing seeing a mother and daughter fight each other for my affection.

These are some small examples that I’m willing to share. The truth is you can get away with even more than that. I’m too embarrassed of my actions to admit anything else, but I’ve done some very wrong things and still kept the girl. Some of you may argue that this only happens with emotionally damaged girls. But that’s just those of you with little experience in this field. In fact the type of man I am is SO rare that once a woman finds me she makes it her mission to never let me go.

I’m going to teach you how to be that “rare” guy that breaks the mould. Women will begin saying things to you such as,

“I’ve never felt so close to someone so fast ever before.” And, “That’s the first time ANY guy has gotten me to squirt before!”

What’s really stopping you from meeting the women you want?

You and I both know what it is…

It’s FEAR. You’re afraid you’ll be rejected. You’re afraid of how you’ll feel after she takes your ego and crushes it instantly.

Like I’ve already told you, once you get every aspect of who YOU ARE in order this fear vanishes. The next thing to do is be persistent and you will master the art of meeting women. I guarantee it.

If a short 5’5” kid with a whiny voice like me managed to date models. There’s no reason you can’t.

You’ll see that it really is easy after all.

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I must digress, this girl is already interested in me before our conversation. I built A LOT of attraction with her during our msn conversations.