Not the Right way. Both were to close when you opened. The difference between flagging down a moving car and walking up to four women in a parked car and motioning to crack a window to ask for directions.
are direct foward approaches like, “i just had to come over and say i think you guys are pretty cute” really that effective?? i know it depends on your tone and voice and everything. but i just feel like it would be weird and creepy if i said it to girls
Dude, you have become one of my favorite…not PUA I don’t really have favorites for that. But just someone out there who can change their life and give hope to others, and you do it well with a good sense of humor and wit. I always liked Neil Strauss not just because of his methods or his story, but the way he wrote the story. His writing talents outside of the PUA world greatly exceed his excellence as a PUA. Something about you I sense the same thing, anyways without further ado here is my question. I really hope you answer this in the book.
I’m walking, its a mall, its a city street, its a beach; it doesn’t matter. What matters is I see two beautiful girls walking ahead of me, and three more walking towards me. I think to myself, and give my buddy the signal(all different groups of guys have em “hb8 10 o’clock” doesn’t work for me but just as an example)
The question is how can I go for either of these groups of lovely ladies, because one is moving ahead of me in the same direction and if I come up from the rear that’s kinda creepy. As I pass the others what can I do to give me the best opportunity to display my charisma, my wit, in other words what can I do to move towards them and begin an interaction without being a creep?
AS far as the book is concerned…every time i tried to incorporate beliefs, principles or whatever in my game, as those of BadBoy, i ended up a confident cocky ass which i am not. when i tried to accept i become a sort of lama from tibet who accepts destiny…which i m not either…
i think confidence and acceptance are more a lack of self-doubt and denial, more than attitudes.
what i d like you did in your book, is something that would make your book uniue among the many: you should adress how to incorporate confidence, acceptance etc.. in a way that doesn not implyoperating over one’s behaviour, philosophy, but on his world view, thus changing the behaviour indirectly. keeping naturality and authenticity of the person.
Hey Jack. I’ve been in the community for a while, and I have some questions that I’d like to see answered in your book. I’m excited for its release, you’re down to earth and went through the transformation with brute force, so you can easily share with others the knowledge of how to get where you are.
So some questions I have are…
1) What are the IOI’s you find are the strongest/most frequent? Which one of these will let you know she wants to be kissed?
2) In terms of what you say and how you say it, what is the most significant change from what you DID to what you DO NOW?
3) Does your newfound confidence affect other aspects of your life outside of Pick Up? If so, how?
4) What is the craziest story you have from an approach?
you rock and you make me laugh you cheer me up jajajaja greetings from mexico i am going for some hot chiks do you have hotmail???? yeah byes respond to mi email please
Muito Legal, gostei da iniciativa de vocês. Em geral, só vemos os vídeos dos casos de sucesso, o que nos fazem pensar se são realmente verdadeiros. Gostei!!!
I love the “I like salad“(or I like whatewer you can think of) opener, it`s fun and playfull. It makes talking to women fun, for both you and the girls.
It puts the girl at ease by imediately leting her know that you just don`t care and just want to have some fun.
If she is a fun person shell respond positively and play along.
If not, she`s a waste of time, so move on to the next available female till you get a hit.
Thanks for the idea guys, Cheers!
haha that was funny as hell when you slowed it down and showed how the 2 girls reacted to you saying they’re attractive. I’m in the same boat as your boi Nitro. No real anxiety I just can’t establish that comfort and lose the convo.
Hey Jack, I was just wondering what song you used towards the end at the last 50 seconds. It’s right before you advertised Chris Lago’s music. Thanks for any help!
One gives you a set amount of challenges every week (or 2 weeks, I’m not sure) and it will send you the next part of the lesson in segments, giving you time to perform each part a head of time. The e-book tells you everything in an easy to understand formula. Ideally you could go with both. But if you don’t intend on devoting a lot of time into the challenges then the e-book is the way to go.
Ling, no they are different. The online course is great and it gives you content, then a challenge to do at the end of each weeks content. The E-book gives you a complete guide in one read through.
Hey Jack, is the eBook the same thing as his online bootcamp where he gives you a ton of videos each day for 3.99 the first month?
please respond because i need to know which one to get.
This should get pretty interesting. I really think if he just tones down his energy a little bit, it’ll make all the difference in the world. He seems too excited about the girl and not really about his reality (if that makes sense) and that comes off as insincere and girls pick that up right away.
cool vid jack, Goind direct with that group was excellent, it all proves the point about inner game, confidence, high status, self belief etc. Direct or indirect (like mystery tells us to do) it doesnt matter. Its what u r like and how interesting and confident u r that does. Nitro rocked, well done, the nipple touch was excellent, i think you coulda got that girls number cause u defo got her attention/ hook.
about direct game check this you tube of a pua called afc adam, from my town london, real cool, breaks down the approach for u too:
hey man.plz subtitle the vids,cant hear cuz of the cars!
dear god this will never work…..
I’m 1:45 into the video and I cannot stop laughing. LMAO, that is the funniest AA breaking technique!
Not the Right way. Both were to close when you opened. The difference between flagging down a moving car and walking up to four women in a parked car and motioning to crack a window to ask for directions.
are direct foward approaches like, “i just had to come over and say i think you guys are pretty cute” really that effective?? i know it depends on your tone and voice and everything. but i just feel like it would be weird and creepy if i said it to girls
Dude, you have become one of my favorite…not PUA I don’t really have favorites for that. But just someone out there who can change their life and give hope to others, and you do it well with a good sense of humor and wit. I always liked Neil Strauss not just because of his methods or his story, but the way he wrote the story. His writing talents outside of the PUA world greatly exceed his excellence as a PUA. Something about you I sense the same thing, anyways without further ado here is my question. I really hope you answer this in the book.
I’m walking, its a mall, its a city street, its a beach; it doesn’t matter. What matters is I see two beautiful girls walking ahead of me, and three more walking towards me. I think to myself, and give my buddy the signal(all different groups of guys have em “hb8 10 o’clock” doesn’t work for me but just as an example)
The question is how can I go for either of these groups of lovely ladies, because one is moving ahead of me in the same direction and if I come up from the rear that’s kinda creepy. As I pass the others what can I do to give me the best opportunity to display my charisma, my wit, in other words what can I do to move towards them and begin an interaction without being a creep?
AS far as the book is concerned…every time i tried to incorporate beliefs, principles or whatever in my game, as those of BadBoy, i ended up a confident cocky ass which i am not. when i tried to accept i become a sort of lama from tibet who accepts destiny…which i m not either…
i think confidence and acceptance are more a lack of self-doubt and denial, more than attitudes.
what i d like you did in your book, is something that would make your book uniue among the many: you should adress how to incorporate confidence, acceptance etc.. in a way that doesn not implyoperating over one’s behaviour, philosophy, but on his world view, thus changing the behaviour indirectly. keeping naturality and authenticity of the person.
Hey Jack. I’ve been in the community for a while, and I have some questions that I’d like to see answered in your book. I’m excited for its release, you’re down to earth and went through the transformation with brute force, so you can easily share with others the knowledge of how to get where you are.
So some questions I have are…
1) What are the IOI’s you find are the strongest/most frequent? Which one of these will let you know she wants to be kissed?
2) In terms of what you say and how you say it, what is the most significant change from what you DID to what you DO NOW?
3) Does your newfound confidence affect other aspects of your life outside of Pick Up? If so, how?
4) What is the craziest story you have from an approach?
you rock and you make me laugh you cheer me up jajajaja greetings from mexico i am going for some hot chiks do you have hotmail???? yeah byes respond to mi email please
add subtitles, audio is bad and not everybody is an english native speaker, i can barely understand what you’re saying
Muito Legal, gostei da iniciativa de vocês. Em geral, só vemos os vídeos dos casos de sucesso, o que nos fazem pensar se são realmente verdadeiros. Gostei!!!
Very Cool!
I love the “I like salad“(or I like whatewer you can think of) opener, it`s fun and playfull. It makes talking to women fun, for both you and the girls.
It puts the girl at ease by imediately leting her know that you just don`t care and just want to have some fun.
If she is a fun person shell respond positively and play along.
If not, she`s a waste of time, so move on to the next available female till you get a hit.
Thanks for the idea guys, Cheers!
I liked it when the girls touched their hair at the same time…will be definitely watching for that the next time I open…
haha that was funny as hell when you slowed it down and showed how the 2 girls reacted to you saying they’re attractive. I’m in the same boat as your boi Nitro. No real anxiety I just can’t establish that comfort and lose the convo.
Lol cool.
Hey Jack, I was just wondering what song you used towards the end at the last 50 seconds. It’s right before you advertised Chris Lago’s music. Thanks for any help!
Yeah ive been watching T’s vid for a couple days now… guys good
wow, that IOI was shown beautifully! thanks!
yo ted at least now u know that u can ask a girl if she interested in getting laid with u, that was jokes. hope to sarge again with u guys.
terry (orange hair limiting belief?)
One gives you a set amount of challenges every week (or 2 weeks, I’m not sure) and it will send you the next part of the lesson in segments, giving you time to perform each part a head of time. The e-book tells you everything in an easy to understand formula. Ideally you could go with both. But if you don’t intend on devoting a lot of time into the challenges then the e-book is the way to go.
So both have the exact same content but the eBook is cheaper?
Ling, no they are different. The online course is great and it gives you content, then a challenge to do at the end of each weeks content. The E-book gives you a complete guide in one read through.
Hey Jack, is the eBook the same thing as his online bootcamp where he gives you a ton of videos each day for 3.99 the first month?
please respond because i need to know which one to get.
This should get pretty interesting. I really think if he just tones down his energy a little bit, it’ll make all the difference in the world. He seems too excited about the girl and not really about his reality (if that makes sense) and that comes off as insincere and girls pick that up right away.
Teach him well, Jack.
You I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: Nitro is awesome.
Nitro way to go!!!!!!!
Jack I love the editing on the video, each one get better and better.
In Nitro’s defense, he was approaching women that were walking down the street towards him whereas your set was sitting still near you.
Either way, gets your point across. Good video.
cool vid jack, Goind direct with that group was excellent, it all proves the point about inner game, confidence, high status, self belief etc. Direct or indirect (like mystery tells us to do) it doesnt matter. Its what u r like and how interesting and confident u r that does. Nitro rocked, well done, the nipple touch was excellent, i think you coulda got that girls number cause u defo got her attention/ hook.
about direct game check this you tube of a pua called afc adam, from my town london, real cool, breaks down the approach for u too:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wEDm-OUkFg
his youtube page is:
http://www.youtube.com/user/AFCAdamLondon
he mainly advocates social proof, the more u have the better your game.
bring the rain
cool video definitely is inspiring i’m in the same boat as that dude but a tiny more experienced