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Name: Adam (alias Jack)
Age: 26 (I was 21 when I began this website)
Height: 5’5″
Weight: 150 lbs.
My story isn’t anything you haven’t heard before. I was always the short guy growing up, I got picked on a little bit, but once I got to high school and hit the gym that all stopped. But of course, much to my dismay, being a fit guy with a 6 pack didn’t catapult women into my arms.
One day some time later a friend of mine passed the book The Game
About that same time I was also dealing with a nasty break up between me and a girl I had been dating for 4 years. So I felt VERY LOST when it came to dating. I had spent all of my youth with the same girl! This stopped me from getting any experience dating other girls! I remember sitting at home by my self, thinking, “I will never have sex again..” I really didn’t see any way for me to be able to meet and attract women… Until I came across this material of course!
I started this website so you can see first hand what it’s like facing your fears and getting out of your comfort zone.
Since starting this website, I’ve even written my own book! Inside this e-book (Easy Attraction) I’ve encompassed EVERYTHING you must do to transform into a ladies man. Inside it contains a simple step-by-step walk through to get you from your current state of being, into an elevated state of being. Simply put – if you follow the advice I have written you WILL get more women, and lots of them. This I can guarantee.
Sincerely,
Adam A.K.A. Jack
Hey Hero,
I am not from America and my first language is not English but I still can hold a conversation, but I have kinda hard time to reply back immediately or sometimes I dont understand and I was a player in my hometown so I am not shy or something.
Do you have any suggestion for me ?
Pretty basic man: Keep practising English! Keep approaching. Don’t let it hold you back, if anything you can be upfront and say to them you’re still learning English. They’ll probably find it adorable if your body language is good.
GIRLS ARE LOSING THE TRUST THAT I USED TO HAVE IN THEM
Hey brothers out there…I was wondering if you can help me out to answer a quetion that nowadays it seems to have more presence in my life, I date a pretty decent number of girls, and when I date, I analize my objective and meassure what has to be done on my own perspective. But with the time, all the analysis has brought something new and it started to get my atention, GIRLS ARE LOSING THE TRUST THAT I USED TO HAVE IN THEM.
am I missing something? the point is that I’ve lost that confidence that was keeping me “blind” and failling all this time, but now, as I hang out with a new girl, all that I can percive while I analize some things in her body language or the subconcious meaning of what she says when she talks, is BAD INTENTIONS, or those intentions that are just looking up for her(sometimes it ruins it all for me, I start to be more defensive). In a relationship I’m always that guy that is looking for the best to please both, I win-she wins, everybody happy.
and my questions are: why I can’t just trust in girls anymore? maybe the result of being cold now? Am I starting to demand more from a girl?
thanks and greetings from Mexico.
Stop worrying about the girl’s body language and just make sure you comfortably demonstrate yours. No girl is going to be comfortable with you right from the get-go, so it’s normal for her to give off bad signs if she’s creeped out. If you just be a positive and fun person, and feel comfortable, she will do the same.
lol u guys are workin too hard dont put the girl to be some holy object thats impossible to get they are people just like us, i think that can be a downfall for people, like katt williams said “dont put the pussy on a pedistool” lol i keep this mind set as a matter of fact there are no dimes or 9s all girls are just deasent lookin
Jack, you are a badass. I am very glad to have learned about your work before shelling out 60 bucks for some book. It seems most others with these different videos and what not detract from the essence of what your teaching. I am so happy that some dude in Canada or where ever the fuck was able to help me see how close my personal ambitions are in relation to the key to this whole issue.
Thankee-sai
hey where are the new videos at? lol,
try to pick up a girl in a strange place, like a subway or bus.. that would be interesting to watch
“Honestly, what are you thinking? We’re all in this together and if girls start recognizing this behavior, it’ll ruin the game for everyone. You want to help people, that’s great! Use the forums, meet up with people, discuss things like what works and what doesn’t, etc. in private. Don’t post videos of yourself online for others to see, at least not without restricted access. And definitely not if you can’t fix your own problems first (i.e. posture, vocal tonality, lack of false time constraints, etc.).”
You’re actually the idiot. Girls aren’t stupid. They know guys want to fuck them. Girls want sex too.
Jack,
Watching the videos has inspired me to set a goal. I’m not a bad looking guy, and have always been in a long term relationship, so don’t really have a lot of experience talking to new girls. I’m not good with starting a conversation, but once I’m in I can handle it from there. I’m somewhat witty but want to get better at it… I have a hard time doing it to people that I don’t know, although I knew I should just say screw it and stop caring what they think (easier said than done). The goal that I’ve set for myself is to have at least 4-5 girls texting me on a daily basis that I can have to hang out with any time I want to.. thats amazing. Good stuff man.
4 years,
. Broke up with my Girlfriend after 8 years. Really sucks. I don`t know man, it is really getting the better of me. I cannot talk to girls. I am just afraid. I really need some help.
holy shit jack, you’re only 135 lbs? damn man you look bigger than that
hey jack I’v been watching your videos for a while and they have helped me a lot, here is a site I found with loads of free information, when you go on it check out the “player guide” section. http://www.fastseduction.com
hope this helps
hey dude
i kinda lost i can’t figure out how to really capture someones attraction,
hold a valuable conversation with girls and people. can you help me out
craig
Do you even update this site anymore?
Hey man love this site. I actually wanted to find a community just for beginners so I can learn and grow with some other people with the same goals. I just started like a week ago and already Im seeing some progress, but I still have anxiety and i still have trouble with the cold approach and how to escalate with the girl that is interested in me. ( i recently fucked it up with an 8.5 cause I didnt escalate and another guy swooped in, damn oh well). anyways great site and i’ll def be coming back and ultilizing this forum.
Hey Jack. I saw your video on Youtube and felt an instant connection with where you’re coming from. I grew up with a lot of anxiety especially social anxiety growing up and I can really relate to your outlook on ‘pickup’. I think starting at a place where you have relatively no social experience is rare but is also a gift because having those roots shape your values in a powerful way and allow you to stay humble. To give you an idea of where I’m coming from my first 4 or 5 months was essentially trying not to humiliate myself whilst chipping away at fear. My first approaches were cold approaches in malls and on the street all around Southern California and been pushing ever since.
I started my journey about 8 months ago and I’ve been living at home with my dad and my brother and it’s been a roller coaster of emotions trying to stay sane and dedicate myself to this. Luckily I’m taking my next semester of school off to travel to Australia. I’m going for 4 months alone with the intention to push myself as hard as possible and really free my mind. It’s the first time I’m ever going to have the opportunity for momentum and I’m excited as hell.
Anyways I saw a lot of myself in you in your interview and I wanted to reach out. I’m going to journal my experiences on this upcoming trip and take heeps of pictures. Keep it real man.
-Raz
Hey LS, you can find almost every method on torrents. Do a search in mininova.org for mystery method or The Game Neil Strauss and there’s everything, there’s even the complete Ross Jeffries’ seminar in video. Hope that helps.
Hey Guys.. Quick question. Do you think Jack is still alive?
I seen mostly all of the video that you put up and I too have been trying to be successful with woman. The only thing is I’m still trying to find out what works and I haven’t really approach hardly any woman yet or stranger. I have been mostly reading DD stuff but now I’m trying to obtain all of the others method. Hope that you can help!
Hey,
Just wonderin Jack, Where in Canada do you live? I’m in ottawa and I know more then anyone else about Game, hell I studied it for almost a year but I have a gaint case of AA…
I’d be cool if I saw you on the street sometime.
-X
Hey man,
i know u feel like a psychiatrist having all these “women” come here and say how bad their life with girls is.. thing is, i might need some help in this area too. ive started reading and watching videos of mystery and david d. almost a year ago for about 3 months then i got a gf. out of all the girls ive met, this one had many qualities that i like in a girl, but she was a virgin and so very stuck up. this created a lot of fights between us, directly and indirectly and so we broke up 6 months later. i still cant get over her after a month and a half later cuz it was a really bad break up. she blocked me on msn and fb and she said she is soo glad she didnt have sex with me. im a virgin as well and i feel really horrible about what she told me. cant get over it.
so now i wana (have to) start over and get back into the game, approaching sets(never did before) but its hard for me to get going because i feel so depresed after breakup. also, i would like to try approaching girls with someone who has the same purpose as me – to go and try meet up girls on the street or clubs.
let me kno if u have any clues how to start this thing and me to get over.
thanks man,
Man, I’ve been through a tough break up couple month ago she went off with another guy after two years… tough life…
Now I want to get better with women, thought not easy, since it’s not the biggest city etc…. write me sometime, maybe we can chit-chat some
Good site, and nice vids
Hey. What’s up. just stopping by to say you have great videos, and your a great pick up artist. I’m not so bad in the game and i’d like to tell you some of my stories, so add me on hotmail if you can and I will be telling you all about it.
Hello all,
I’m currently researching various weight loss programs and courses.
So, if you don’t mind please answer in this topic: What’s your single most important question about weight loss?
Cheers, JD
Hey
How goes it
I’ve been looking at your stuff for the last few days when I get the time and it’s an interesting story
I wanted to say that you maybe you should make it to where when someone comments the newest comments go to the top not the bottom….just a though
And lastly is that the real Zen above me???
Dudes what your are doing it’s fucking amazing, all the respect of the world from Argentina for your guys!
Zen
Nice one mate, looking forward to seeing more
Hey Jack, my friend and I are actually considering starting a site inspired by yours. We’ve been studying pickup for nearly a year now, and I’m only getting deeper into the diversity of all the resources. I just recently started some solid field work, and I’m anxious to continue. I hope I’ll be able to consult you on occasion when I need assistance. Take care man.
-Sanami
public or private forum**
Hey Jack. I love your guys outlook on the PUA community and I feel exactly like you do when it comes to pick up. Doing methods and routines does get results but it all converts back to the same principle. Your much better finding what works for you and what you feel comfortable with. I’m 18 and have been working out the tweaks of my game for about 6 months now and I havn’t even scratched the surface. Have you ever thought of putting up a public or private for to discuss pick up with other people who share the same incite on the art? So instead of using stylelife or mystery method, we can discuss what works for us and field test new openers , stories, negs, banters ect. Fresh input is always great to have. Email me sometime.
What’s up man, real cool thing you got going on here, I’m just halfway through the first episode and I gotta ask, what state are you guys living in? The reason I’m wondering is because in your approach you said “I live in ____” and it was a town near mine.
Later,
Vik
by the way, im 18 and almost done with high school, but the thing is, how can u pick up a girl in school (obviously not the real young ones), and is it possible to do so by getting to know her bit by bit in school? i mean, i would see her every day. and if i mess up, i would see her everyday. any opinions on this?
hey, I would like to see a video of you calling a girl and getting her to come over to your place, or at least text her. I dunno what u guys say, and I’m just wondering how that part happens. I hear about your lay reports but I don’t see how they happen after the getting the number part
Hey Jack, if you’re from Hamilton lets chill. I wanna met a PUA and see what you guys are really about an see the magic work first hand. I’ll bring a bunch of my girlfriends and you guys work your magic.
Ciao
yh, hi, wow well done on this pretty cool- as i was reading this i saw a lot of pple talking about confidence–jus wanted to say- have any ofyou thought about the threee second rule. think about it, this rule doesn’t even give you time to hesitate and doubt yourself… but pretty good so far. so good luck with your stuff.
Hey Jack,
This site you got goin on is money. The video-documented field reports are gold. Keep it up. Dude, I want to see you use the “lint opener” aka the one where you approach a girl, look at her funny, and with a piece of lint hidden in your hand, pretend to notice something in her hair and “grab the piece of lint off her hair”. You would likely need to be in a bar-like environment or even a small party for this to work effectively but I think it’s such a good one. It totally makes the chick self-conscious. I’ll be lookin’ to see you try that one soon.
PS. I’ve been in the game for a couple months now. I live in the GTA…I’m not sure where you’re from but if you’re in the area dude, shoot me an email and I’ll gladly wing you.
-B.A.
Holy nutsack is that AFCAdamLondon that commented there??? Thats pretty good if it is, like, hes a pro, but it could just be some jackass named London… Bleh… Is there anywhere or any link or email or whatever where i can ask direct questions? Id aprechiate being able to talk to someone who was into the whole PU deal, i would really aprechiate it.
ps, ur videos veiw more like little sneak preveiws and not actuall shows, as if there are actuall full length features but there somehow not in my reach, as if i have to buy them or somthing, just a comment, bleh, cya.
Great concept Jack! I like the website, and I like how you guys are are documenting it and able to see your own progress. You are using different styles of exercises which has obviously helped to deal with A.A. and other issues. Keep up the good work, I’ve been noticing when I go out whether its in my shitty southern ontario city or when I go out to Toronto, I have been having way more luck, and approach anxiety is decreasing dramatically. I havn’t even thought about trying anything at my college but since reading week is done I think I will be making many approaches at school now.
P.S. London is a fucking retard. Saying things like this will ruin the game for everyone, there are several mainstream television programs will hundreds of thousands of viewers watching it that reveal everything (Pickup Artist and even Keys to the VIP)
Jack,
I keep thinking to myself that there can’t possibly Jack,
I keep thinking to myself that there can’t possibly be someone this stupid. Then after going through your videos I realize that there is. I commend you for trying to learn the game, and further for trying to help other people as well, but not like this.
“Here’s a great idea, why doesn’t someone start a site that anyone can access, where they post videos of themselves trying to pick up girls. That way, everyone will know what they look like, exactly what material they’re using, and can recognize where they’re going so they can get labeled as a mechanic and ruin their own playing field.
Better yet, why not brag to everyone that views their site when their game actually works to an F-close, even if it is in fools mate to give false hope for themselves and others.”
Honestly, what are you thinking? We’re all in this together and if girls start recognizing this behavior, it’ll ruin the game for everyone. You want to help people, that’s great! Use the forums, meet up with people, discuss things like what works and what doesn’t, etc. in private. Don’t post videos of yourself online for others to see, at least not without restricted access. And definitely not if you can’t fix your own problems first (i.e. posture, vocal tonality, lack of false time constraints, etc.).
You think I’m wrong? Watch those videos again and come talk to me. I’m London, and you’re an idiot!
hey man
I’m doing the stylelife challenge too. Its funny how the pua gurus gets you so hyped up on how you’ll be irresistible to women, but once you get on the field, it turns out to be actually a LOT of work to get to a level where your actually smooth at this. You two have drive, and that’s important.
good luck on your journey
hey guys, names Chris from England.
I don’t want to give you my life story, you’re far too busy. I just dropped by to say I Came across yourselves while casually browsing on youtube and was pretty inspired.
Interestingly I was once alright at this game, when I was 16ish I read Ross Jeffries’ ebook for free and it really helped, I had no fear approaching people, I then met a beautiful girl and was with her for 3 years.
The thing is…the game moved on, since i’ve been single (like a year now) the whole confidence has gone, nothing works and i’m really struggling in any situation (social situations at 20 are very different from when I was 16). The confidence techniques that worked 4 years ago just don’t anymore and I really am looking to re-establish that confidence to randomly chat to people.
Most of my social time is done in the clubbing scene, it’s quite difficult I find but even moreso when i’m lacking confidence to even dance with someone I know’s interested. I know my flaws, I pull away to early even when I do get talking amongst other things, get a number but never really follow on from there.
I was wondering if Jack had any luck in the gym with women? theres always beautiful women about and I have had a few chats with girls in the Jacuzzi (plenty of openers). I dont spend long enough there these days lol
anyways drop me an email or a myspace add sometime, would be great to hear from you’s personally…i’d love to have a partner/wingman like you two have!
laters
Hey Jack
I really like this website of yours and I also enjoyed watching that video you and scoot uploaded. I must it is really kind of both of you guys to share your experieces. I mean not many ppl lyke to do this kinda stuff and upload there videos. So ya good stuff.
I also trying to go throught this stuff and i am also like scoot and you, finding really difficuilt. Like I have also got the book called the rules of the game. Is there any way we can be friends so perhaps I can maybe discuss my approaches with you and stuff.
thanks
Bunny
Good stuff bro. You’ve inspired me to document what i do. Awesomeness. Keep it pimping, as they say around here.
cheers
cool site, keep it up.
I want a piece of Jack Coxwell;);)
lmaooo