Correct Messages to Send Women:
Her profile reads: “Hi, my name is Alley. I am 20 years old & I love to have a good time. I love animals, walks, music, my friends and family. I am a vegetarian and my favorite color is purple:) I want a guy who’s confident but not cocky.”
Example #1:The Statement Message
This gives you a few options to choose from. You could either form your statement based off of her being a vegetarian, or about her looking for a guy who’s not cocky.
What would I do?
I would use this as an opportunity to display one of my attractive qualities. So I would comment on her looking for a confident man. The quality I’d be demonstrating would be my dominant and manly nature. I would display this with my choice of words, and the way I structure my sentences as powerful sure-of-my-self statements.
My Message: “I agree, most women want confident men. There’s far too many wusses out there who believe they can win a girl over through buying her attention. Or even worse! Through trying to impress her by proving that he’s got all the qualities she’s after. They don’t understand that when someone is actually confident, they need not say or display it forcefully. It simply radiates off their being. They could be saying nothing, and you’d know they were confident just by the way they’d move and look at you. It’s definitely not something you can fake, that’s for sure.”
Next – to make it a two-part message, with the second part directing her what to do next – I would say:
“Please read my profile before responding. I’m ONLY interested in meeting people who are taking their life in a similar direction as I am.”
Example #2 – The Compliment First Message
My Message: “I’m very proud of you for being a vegetarian. I’ve see all the videos in regards to the way they treat the animals. Even just the way we get our milk from cows! It makes me sick to the my stomach. Unless of course you’re a vegetarian simply because you dislike the taste of meat. Then disregard my entire statement – but you’ll be losing some serious brownie points if that’s the case.”
Next – to make it a two-part message, with the second part being an explanation as to why I really messaged her – I would say:
“Anyway, I’m messaging you because I get the sense you’re a confident girl who knows what she wants in life. This is something I find highly attractive in women. And not to mention, you are kinda’ cute as well, a definite bonus .”
Conclusion:
In reality I’ve sent out thousands of messages. Some messages have been as short as one or two words – and ended up in me meeting the girl. Other messages have been paragraphs long full of stories and hoops for her to jump in. Like I said in the video, the most important part is that you structure your PROFILE correctly. This will build most of the intrigue for you so you don’t have to do as much work with your actual messages back and forth to her.
The real objective is to take the interaction off of the website as soon as you can. You want to arrange a meet up. Don’t rush this process, but when the conversation reaches a high don’t wuss out on suggesting to meet! Don’t go for her msn or facebook unless she absolutely insists. Msn/facebook is a death trap more often than not. It’s best to move directly to a phone conversation or arrange a meet up through text alone.
What site is this that you are seeing your messages in the video?
hit the road jack
and dont you come back no more
Hey Jack, I’m wondering if you message the girls who send you bad messages such as the one you listed in to begining of the video, and what do you say?
Jack,
I really admire how these videos are so concise, quick, and packed with useful info. However, one thing I can’t remember seeing yet is a segment on the types of pictures you should use in your profile; how to take them, in what setting, by yourself, with friends, etc.. Maybe you could incorporate this into a future video?
But yeah, great video, it’s interesting to finally see the types of messages girls send to guys and critiquing those. Good stuff so far!
–Andy
Allow me. The pic should simply show the best you! something special with the moment the pic was taken,like standing at some monument or jumping off a plane.friends fit great in the pic,but it gotta be real obvious who you are in the pic.oh and dont look like a wild partyslut